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Cute AF

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the privilege of not having to be strong you know

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The Onion buys rightwing conspiracy theory site Infowars with plans to make it ‘very funny, very stupid’

Satirical news outlet purchases media platform run by Alex Jones at a court-ordered auction

theguardian.com/media/2024/nov…

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Well if that doesn't sound like an Onion article, I don't know what does.

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idea: take chatgpt and hook it up directly to http, give it a prompt to act like an apub server and return valid responses, and serve back whatever it gives you

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:neocat_pleading: what if we were both girls
:neocat_pleading: and we got married
:neocat_pleading: at the decentraland taco bell

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Lord, The Gamers Youtube series has been fantastic and such a satisfying ending to the season, dear god I hope they get to keep making it.

(Context: this is a follow up to a whole series of movies starting with The Gamers)

#TheGamers #DND #TTRPG #Comedy

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I started a Google search after your post and realized I've missed a lot, so extra thanks. I have a few things added to my watching que now.

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The SHA-256 hash of this sentence begins with 0573e7473.

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By day I’m a psychologist but by night I am a cat bed (and by day sometimes too when Vera requests it)

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Comfort food entertainment... catching up on the Mashle: Muscles and Magic anime.

Basically a himbo in the world of magic navigates life via brute force abusing physics.

#anime #comfort #himbo



And a quote post to prove the point!


How the quote-post debate demonstrates that many Mastodon users know nothing about the Fediverse


One of the worst aspects of Mastodon's plans to introduce quote-posts with a switch:

You keep having to tell Mastodon users that the Fediverse is not only Mastodon. That (insert a long list of Fediverse server applications here¹) have had quote-posts from the beginning. That they're all in the Fediverse. That they're all fully federated with Mastodon. That they can all quote-post any Mastodon toot they can possibly receive or import. And that they will be able to quote-post any Mastodon toot they can in the future, regardless of Mastodon account settings.

Up until this point, they were fully, firmly convinced that they're 100% safe from quote-posts on Mastodon. Either because they could not for the lives of them imagine that anything in the Fediverse has them. Or simply because they "knew" up until this point that the Fediverse is Mastodon. And if Mastodon introduces an opt-out or opt-in switch, this switch will mean absolute, 100% water-tight safety from quote-posts.

But for the Fediverse outside of Mastodon, the quote-post switch will be completely useless. Again: These lots of Fediverse server apps have had quote-posts before Mastodon introduced them. They had quote-posts before Mastodon invented the opt-in or opt-out switch. I mean, at least two of them have had quote-posts since before Mastodon even existed! So how are they supposed to support a proprietary, non-standard, Mastodon-specific switch which probably won't be documented anywhere before Mastodon rolls out quote-posts?

I'll tell you what'll happen.

Mastodon users will deactivate quote-posts for their accounts or not activate them in the first place. Non-Mastodon users, not knowing about the status of that switch, will quote-post them regardless with zero resistance. Upon which these Mastodon users will shit brix. And they'll call for either blocking that obviously rogue Mastodon user instance-wide, or blocking that user's instance, or Fediblocking that user's instance.

At this point, someone else who is not on Mastodon either will chime in and tell them: That particular user is, in fact, not on Mastodon. The Fediverse is not only Mastodon. That user is on Friendica. No, Friendica is not a rogue Mastodon instance. Friendica is not Mastodon at all. No, Friendica isn't a Mastodon fork either. Friendica has nothing to do with Mastodon. In fact, Friendica is older than Mastodon. On Friendica, quote-posts are perfectly normal. Friendica has had quote-posts for longer than Mastodon has even existed. And so forth.

Cue the Mastodon user shitting brix again, foaming with anger and calling for a Fediblock of all of Friendica.

In fact, I'm pretty sure that if Mastodon's quote-post feature and the rest of the Fediverse disregarding it leads to more awareness of the non-Mastodon Fediverse and its non-Mastodon features on Mastodon, it will also lead to demands for being able to completely block everything that isn't Mastodon, either on an account level (and then on by default, of course) or on an instance level or both.

Oh, by the way: The ability to completely lock out entire Fediverse projects already exists in the Fediverse right now, too. It's exclusive to two other Fediverse server apps that aren't Mastodon, both of which introduced this feature in September.

¹Here's a probably incomplete list of still-active Fediverse server apps with quote-posts which, yes, can quote-post Mastodon toots right now and will be able to quote-post Mastodon toots regardless of opt-in or opt-out:

  • Pleroma
  • Akkoma
  • Misskey
  • Firefish
  • Sharkey
  • Iceshrimp
  • Iceshrimp.NET
  • CherryPick
  • Neko
  • Catodon
  • Meisskey
  • Tanukey
  • Metaskey
  • Mitra
  • Friendica
  • Hubzilla
  • (streams)
  • Forte


And both Threads and the Bridgy Fed Bluesky bridge support quote-posts, too.

(Inb4 both Oliphant and The Bad Space trying hard to catch all instances of the server apps mentioned above to blocklist them all.)

#Long #LongPost #CWLong #CWLongPost #FediMeta #FediverseMeta #CWFediMeta #CWFediverseMeta #Fediverse #NotOnlyMastodon #FediverseIsNotMastodon #MastodonIsNotTheFediverse #Mastodon #Pleroma #Akkoma #Misskey #Calckey #Firefish #Sharkey #Iceshrimp #Iceshrimp.NET #CherryPick #Neko #Catodon #Meisskey #Tanukey #Metaskey #Mitra #Friendica #Hubzilla #Streams #(streams) #Forte #Threads #BridgyFed #Bluesky #QuotePost #QuotePosts #QuoteTweet #QuoteTweets #QuoteToot #QuoteToots #QuoteBoost #QuoteBoosts #QuotedShares #QuotePostDebate #QuoteTootDebate #FediblockMeta #Oliphant #TheBadSpace



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How the quote-post debate demonstrates that many Mastodon users know nothing about the Fediverse


The Fediverse has quote-posts right now, it can quote-post Mastodon toots with no problems, and no Mastodon switch will change that; CW: long (over 4,500 characters), Fediverse meta, Fediverse beyond Mastodon meta, quote-post meta

One of the worst aspects of Mastodon's plans to introduce quote-posts with a switch:

You keep having to tell Mastodon users that the Fediverse is not only Mastodon. That (insert a long list of Fediverse server applications here¹) have had quote-posts from the beginning. That they're all in the Fediverse. That they're all fully federated with Mastodon. That they can all quote-post any Mastodon toot they can possibly receive or import. And that they will be able to quote-post any Mastodon toot they can in the future, regardless of Mastodon account settings.

Up until this point, they were fully, firmly convinced that they're 100% safe from quote-posts on Mastodon. Either because they could not for the lives of them imagine that anything in the Fediverse has them. Or simply because they "knew" up until this point that the Fediverse is Mastodon. And if Mastodon introduces an opt-out or opt-in switch, this switch will mean absolute, 100% water-tight safety from quote-posts.

But for the Fediverse outside of Mastodon, the quote-post switch will be completely useless. Again: These lots of Fediverse server apps have had quote-posts before Mastodon introduced them. They had quote-posts before Mastodon invented the opt-in or opt-out switch. I mean, at least two of them have had quote-posts since before Mastodon even existed! So how are they supposed to support a proprietary, non-standard, Mastodon-specific switch which probably won't be documented anywhere before Mastodon rolls out quote-posts?

I'll tell you what'll happen.

Mastodon users will deactivate quote-posts for their accounts or not activate them in the first place. Non-Mastodon users, not knowing about the status of that switch, will quote-post them regardless with zero resistance. Upon which these Mastodon users will shit brix. And they'll call for either blocking that obviously rogue Mastodon user instance-wide, or blocking that user's instance, or Fediblocking that user's instance.

At this point, someone else who is not on Mastodon either will chime in and tell them: That particular user is, in fact, not on Mastodon. The Fediverse is not only Mastodon. That user is on Friendica. No, Friendica is not a rogue Mastodon instance. Friendica is not Mastodon at all. No, Friendica isn't a Mastodon fork either. Friendica has nothing to do with Mastodon. In fact, Friendica is older than Mastodon. On Friendica, quote-posts are perfectly normal. Friendica has had quote-posts for longer than Mastodon has even existed. And so forth.

Cue the Mastodon user shitting brix again, foaming with anger and calling for a Fediblock of all of Friendica.

In fact, I'm pretty sure that if Mastodon's quote-post feature and the rest of the Fediverse disregarding it leads to more awareness of the non-Mastodon Fediverse and its non-Mastodon features on Mastodon, it will also lead to demands for being able to completely block everything that isn't Mastodon, either on an account level (and then on by default, of course) or on an instance level or both.

Oh, by the way: The ability to completely lock out entire Fediverse projects already exists in the Fediverse right now, too. It's exclusive to two other Fediverse server apps that aren't Mastodon, both of which introduced this feature in September.

¹Here's a probably incomplete list of still-active Fediverse server apps with quote-posts which, yes, can quote-post Mastodon toots right now and will be able to quote-post Mastodon toots regardless of opt-in or opt-out:

  • Pleroma
  • Akkoma
  • Misskey
  • Firefish
  • Sharkey
  • Iceshrimp
  • Iceshrimp.NET
  • CherryPick
  • Neko
  • Catodon
  • Meisskey
  • Tanukey
  • Metaskey
  • Mitra
  • Friendica
  • Hubzilla
  • (streams)
  • Forte


And both Threads and the Bridgy Fed Bluesky bridge support quote-posts, too.

(Inb4 both Oliphant and The Bad Space trying hard to catch all instances of the server apps mentioned above to blocklist them all.)

#Long #LongPost #CWLong #CWLongPost #FediMeta #FediverseMeta #CWFediMeta #CWFediverseMeta #Fediverse #NotOnlyMastodon #FediverseIsNotMastodon #MastodonIsNotTheFediverse #Mastodon #Pleroma #Akkoma #Misskey #Calckey #Firefish #Sharkey #Iceshrimp #Iceshrimp.NET #CherryPick #Neko #Catodon #Meisskey #Tanukey #Metaskey #Mitra #Friendica #Hubzilla #Streams #(streams) #Forte #Threads #BridgyFed #Bluesky #QuotePost #QuotePosts #QuoteTweet #QuoteTweets #QuoteToot #QuoteToots #QuoteBoost #QuoteBoosts #QuotedShares #QuotePostDebate #QuoteTootDebate #FediblockMeta #Oliphant #TheBadSpace

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On the other hand there's a habit that I don't understand well. People still browse the twitter to make screenshots from posts of disturbing accounts there. Just to bring them over here to upset their mastodon timelines with those ... well ... quoted posts.
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If you can't stand by what you say, maybe don't say it? At least not publicly on the internet for everyone to see.

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Secure your IoT devices by (accidentally) encasing them in concrete. Fortunately this is a POE doorbell and doesn't require battery changes. It does prevent someone from easily getting to the reset button under the bottom lip; does this count as embedded security?

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Political, apparently

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the protocol isn't mastodon the protocol is mastodon's monster

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Sorry to keep hammering our donation link, but honestly, we are obviously going to be swamped the next few months.
We're going to need a war chest

transrescue.org/donations/dona…

#trans #TransRights #usa
#transrightsarehumanrights

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As we’ve been helping American trans people intent on escaping Trump, we’ve encountered more than once the use of an Underground Railroad metaphor in relation to today.

We think that’s inappropriate, we’d prefer that people didn’t do that, and here’s why.
(more)

#trans #TransRights #usa

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That isn’t a good look however you try to frame it, so please don’t do it. We suggest instead that you read up on the history of American slavery, and construct more appropriate language for the present.

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Welcome to my honeypot. 4 weeks ago, I mentioned how Brave Browser's CEO was racist, sexist, homophobic. During that time, as one would expect, racist, sexist, and homophobic people said that was a selling point. For those monitoring the Fedi Block hashtag, now you have all those creeps in 1 place (thread). - You're welcome. #FediBlock
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Major Service Notice, USpol

It's with a heavy heart that I'm letting y'all know that I'm disabling open-registrations and *encouraging* all users to find a new home.

I'm not kicking anyone off my server, but unfortunately due to the political situation here in the US the chance for things to go *very bad very quickly* I can not vouch for this server as reliable.

I live in Texas and need to figure out plans to evacuate at this point. I was holding out hope that we'd at least have status quo (as monstrously awful as it is) for longer.

And to make things worse, I'm a trans-woman, they actively want to make my very existence (let alone presence online) illegal and have been building the machinery to make that a very fast process once Trump assumes office.

So I do not recommend this server any longer for those reasons, if you choose to stay I'll continue to run it and support y'all.

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a story in 2 acts

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Love this video. The conversations of autistic people are usually values based, not identity based. Working out who we are in relationship to each other via Phatic language and small talk isn’t something we naturally do or enjoy. We just want to cut to the chase and talk about the stuff we’re really interested in. I can have a fascinating conversation with someone I’ve just met and come away knowing very little about them as a person, except the stuff that really matters to me, their interests & values. It’s not that I don’t care about them as a person, and if I get to know them better, I will develop an interest in the things that are currently key factors in their life - their health, relationships, work etc.

I remember a pop-psychology based sermon in church one time about a simplistic binary notion of people as focussed on people or tasks. I’m a people person. I’m highly empathetic and like helping people. But if I can also be very focussed on the task at hand and if it’s not apparent to me (& I’m pretty observant) that someone is upset in some way, I’ll often focus on the task and skip phatic language & small talk.

Thanks to @shiri for the clip.

#actuallyautistic @actuallyautistic

youtu.be/eGnH0KAXhCw

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@Susan60

The conversations of autistic people are usually values based, not identity based.

Small correction, our identities are value based, theirs are collective/social based

in reply to Shiri Bailem

Yes, neurotypicals parrot values but build their relationships in aesthetic/emotional ("cultural", misunderstood) compability. Once they have that settled their "empathy" kicks in and they close their group to others.
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Or, as I like to frame it. Internal based, against external.


Holy shit, today I learned... now I can at least follow people on Bluesky without having to make an account... (Bonus because Friendica supports RSS natively, but y'all on Mastodon and similar will probably benefit from this)


One of my favorite people is now on blue sky, and I dont want to create a bluesky account just to follow him.

Fortunately every blue sky account has an rss feed, and RSSParrot can create a fediverse account for me to follow so I can get my favorite twitch streamer's bluesky updates right in my mastodon timeline: rss-parrot.net/

#RSS #Mastodon #BlueSky #RSSParrot




My instance is currently running on a rented dedicated server, but in the next few weeks gets transferred back down to my own local hardware. But it still doesn't cost nothing to run even after that (power, internet, upgrades, backups, time).

I literally never received a donation, but I keep trucking on.

That said, running your own instance is rewarding and I definitely encourage shared hosting solutions.


The power of the fediverse is decentralization which doesn’t happen by accident. If you’re on a server you love then support it financially, but if you’re thinking of changing servers consider spinning up your own.

The cost of managed hosting via @fedihost is the same as what I was previously contributing to my prior server, but now I have complete control of my experience.

fedihost.co/register?refer=Hau…

#Mastodon #PeerTube #Pixelfed #Fediverse #Decentralize #KeepSocialSmall


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I would love to host on my own hardware someday, but networking is my kryptonite. I have no idea how to make a RaspberryPi accessible externally (on a dynamic IP) without introducing all manner of security risks that I don’t understand.
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absolutely losing my shit at the concept of my wife having independent thoughts. what’s next. she develops object permanence? starts perceiving linear time? NOT in MY marriage



This hits hard tbh

#lbgt #lgbtqia #lgbt #trans #meme

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wait a minute. Trans people are the real Americans!

/j /j idek what I’d be starting with this omfg /j



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Due to regrettably unfortunate circumstances, I would like to inform you that I am awake.

This seems suboptimal.

Sorry.



Random weekend note: I never thought I'd be proud of myself for assuming the fetal position before...

#volunteering #charity #ScareForACure

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Context: there's a local haunted house called Scare For A Cure that raises money for charity and is fully volunteer run. (Last year raised $50k for the Breast Cancer Research Center and also distributed thousands in scholarships and other donations). Additionally this isn't your typical "here's a series of themed rooms and spooks and nothing more", Scare runs a full plotline with interactivity, you do stuff and have a story you're participating in... in addition to getting shot with about a half dozen gore cannons within one hour...

I've been volunteering in different roles throughout the month, with some interruptions here and there. On Saturday, the final night of the event, I was resetting "Jekyll and Hyde's secret storeroom". This involved sneaking in behind groups to replace the mcguffin (a vial of serum) and reset the exit portal. Normally this involves sneaking down the hallway as soon as they're in the storeroom, waiting for the moment they exit the store room to slip in, reset it, then slip back out into the hallway and out a side door... but if groups run close together, I might have to wait in the store room as one group enters the hallway and the next group lingers in the next space, the moment they leave I slip out the door behind them and slip between the buildings to get back to my starting position.

One group however... they were moving so slow and had zero consideration for the fact that there's a production that cares about timing... they caused 2 groups to pile up right behind them. So resetting after them I had to duck into the next room instead of returning back... but then the group right after them was stuck waiting a really long time in that space before they could move forward while another group was in the hall... I literally had nowhere to go and by the sound cues there was only seconds before they came in the room and the group ahead wasn't even starting to leave...

I dropped into the fetal position, started sobbing about how Jekyll killed everyone and just played the victim who was completely broken and hiding, and when they left i cried about how it wasn't safe out there (the portals all led to "in between" spaces where "The Hunter" was).

Funnily enough the guide for that group was the casting director and the actor playing Jekyll/Hyde was one of the main co-directors of the show watching through a crack in the wall going "oh shit" at seeing me still in there.

The actual official plan for that happening was to just suck it up and let it happen... nobody counted on me coming up with split second improvisation to maintain immersion...

#improv #acting #volunteering #charity #panic

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Just highlighting that I'm right there in Texas, right in the "Do Not Travel". I am definitively not safe.

#lgbtq #trans #uspol #lgbt #lgbtqia

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I have a new pet theory: writers could use writing image captions as a writing exercise for describing scènes visually in their work. Could that be anything?

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fedi is pretty nice but anyone find it weird that you have to send regular proof of gayness to the council of fedi admins?

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Sometimes Matt calls me when he can’t remember a database password, but lately, it seems that every time we talk, it’s about another challenge against one of the books in my high school library.
buff.ly/48mZYtK

#LGBTQ #Education #Libraries #Books #USPolitics #BookBans

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Incumbents won't tolerate meaningful (="an incumbent loses power") change.

Real change makes someone powerful mad. It doesn't happen until everyone powerful is more scared than mad AND stops trying to prevent the change. (Fear makes you stupid. Powerful fear ≠ constructive response.)

"Women are people with agency" (~"no slaves"), "people need to eat" and "you can't keep the loot" (~"climate") are real change.

Reality will get to the incumbents eventually. It's better if we get there first.

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US pol, venting

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i love how windows powerusers are in what can only be explained as a toxic relationship with the os

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The sweetest message (by u/Holyrollerfliper12)
(AI Alt-Text)

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Today I learned that GNU tar does network connections if you say "foo:bar", it tries to resolve "foo". FFS, wasn't the Unix philosophy to do one thing and do it well? Luckily there's a "--force-local" option to GNU tar to avoid it doing remote connections.

Sorry if you're in trouble now, either reviewing your tar calls in your application and whether they can take user input as filename -- or if this was part of your exfiltration or attack on a system.

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@hannes wtf... that's so incredibly unnecessary as a function as well... (given that you can pipe into network connections)