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@actuallyautistic I'm going to test deliberately leaning full into the beige diet.

Everywhere I see two things:

1. Autistic people preferring simple carbohydrates, (potato, bread, pasta) and proteins that are ground, (e.g. nuggets), or soft, (e.g. beans).

2. Non-autistic people insisting this dietary preference so many have, entirely independent of one another and of even knowing we're autistic, is inherently wrong and is an eating disorder.

I have an alternative theory outlined in next post

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in reply to Scruffy Dux :krita: :inkscape:

I read a bunch of resources describing the fact metabolic disorders are extremely common in autistic people. We are also very commonly missing the enzymes required to break down complex carbohydrates.

So maybe, just maybe, instead of insisting everything we feel and want is wrong from birth, it could actually be considered there is a good physiological reason just about all of us want to eat the exact same thing??

Maybe the food we want to eat is the kind we can actually...

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...metabolism and extract energy from?

Maybe insisting we eat the food supposed to be healthy based off studies of non-autistic people is not the correct course? Maybe we actually intuitively know what we need, but we're constantly told we're wrong about ourselves in every way so we lose touch with that.

So what if we actually trust ourselves, identify the "beige" foods we crave and build a diet from them that is healthy for autistic people...

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...I do not believe it's the beige foods that cause health issues, I think it's the specific way we find them in our society. Always bundled in with too much sugar, too many processed ingredients.

But what if we take those beige ingredients, leave the rubbish out, and make ourselves an easily metabolised diet based off what we've always felt?

I started testing this a few months ago, before getting COVID hit pause, and it was working for me. A major uptick in energy....

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... So now I'm making it a project.

And I'm going to start by inverting all the advice that has failed to work for me for decades.

I'm going to get the list of foods I see in articles people try to force their kids to stop eating, and that's going on the IN list.

And the food they try to force kids to eat even though they gag, that's OUT.

Then I'm going to figure out a no-rubbish way to eat all those foods, and see what happens.

I'll post my results.

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this is my opinion too. We can have bland food that is nutritionally dense, we just don't because companies want to keep costs down and addictive things in their foods high.

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all the foods I still really like. I make myself eat other things, because “it’s good for me,” but pasta, potatoes, bread, beans, I could live on just them. As a kid I used to just eat Mac and Cheese or beans for supper. I also would eat pork and bean sandwiches. I tried to give protein to my brothers, most of the time.

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in reply to BlackDutchSnark

Right, same. And at this point the supposed health benefits have failed to materialize, so I'm seriously doubting if everything that's good for non-autistic people is actually good for me.

I really don't think it is at this point.

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in reply to BlackDutchSnark

I also eat loads of bread, potato, pasta & really do love fruits and veggies but in specific ways — soup w/ cooked veggies and soft ripe raw fruit (strawberries, peaches, grapes -- I like the pop). Sometimes raw veggies for the crunch (sensory-seeker)

But, I am just giving myself permission (in my 40s) to eat what I want and I'm seeing, for me at least, it's still healthy. Just not healthy foods I don't like. I'd be curious if you find that too.

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I wish I had said it seems healthy to me. Because as you said, your body is seeming to want more only potatoes and things, and that might be what's healthier for you, as you are exploring. I hope my response didn't read to be reinforcing the idea that there's one way to eat healthy.

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in reply to Claire

At 61, I'm still eating what I want when I want it. I take the position that if my body wants food X, I should eat it.

I could drink less beer, but that's more about addiction.

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@Scruffy Dux :krita: :inkscape: My experience with food is that the biggest factors for me are:
* Poverty: because of how it impacts my ability to make money, calories become the priority over everything else because I can't afford to eat low calorie foods in enough quantities to get my caloric needs met... so lots of grains
* Consistency: the more heavily processed foods (ie. chicken nuggets vs chicken wings) are much more consistent in experience, which helps protect me from ARFID shifts due to unpleasant or unexpected tastes/textures
* Simplicity: foods that don't require preparation because executive dysfunction makes meal preparation draining

When you start looking at that list, you find alot of beige...

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in reply to Shiri Bailem

100%. Those 3 are also major factors for me too.

So if there's a way to go beige that can also support health, and address those 3 points? Perfect.

in reply to Scruffy Dux :krita: :inkscape:

I am a little confused on "beige diet"...
Is that stuff like my go to overstressed food of spaghetti with just a little butter and salt?

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I am a little confused on "beige diet"...
Is that stuff like my go-to food when overstressed being spaghetti with just a little butter and salt?

People who know me well, and care enough to notice (so like 1 person), know if the butter and salt go on the spaghetti, things have not been going smoothly.

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I dunno… surely the lack of variety of nutrients and fibre comes at a cost, and it’s hard to say that our digestive disorders aren’t at least partially caused by that skew to our gut flora.

I am v same-food, and I get stressed out if the textures/flavours/colours are not predictable… (to illustrate: I went veggie 30 years ago due to one weird chicken nugget that still haunts me), but I fit as much nutrition as possible into what I do eat.

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I don't think it's just "limited diet" that causes our digestive issues.

I'm Autistic and vegan and I eat, and always have, a very well balanced diet nutrient wise even if the specific foods I'll eat aren't as broad as allistic people, but I've had IBS since I was a child.

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I’m not suggesting it’s *just* that, and of course there are individual differences… but I think it’s hard to rule out that it plays a role at the population level

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oh for sure, it's not a simple yes/no issue. It depends on so many things. I agree it's a factor.

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Shiri Bailem

@MarkusL @Scruffy Dux :krita: :inkscape: most of that talk is conspiratorial nonsense, with a dose of chemophobia.

"Processed food" basically means anything that's not raw (ie. if I eat a raw apple it's unprocessed, but if I mash it into apple sauce it's now processed food). And there's all sorts of levels and types of processing, so saying "ultra-processed food" is just vague language at best.

What we're talking about in terms of ARFID and Autism is food consistency. ie. the difference between a chicken patty and a chicken breast/wing or hamburger and a steak.

We often struggle with food that doesn't have consistent textures and flavors, it's a big part of why chicken nuggets are so often a staple diet item for many of us... because it's really just the same chicken as wings/breasts, but we don't have to deal with inconsistent fat distribution and bones.

And there's thousands of different ways to process food from shredding, grinding, cooking, canning, freezing, marinating, etc.

So if you're going to cite problems with food processing you need to give specific processing methods because they're wildly different.

Also, to be clear, the multivitamin suggestion isn't because of perceived problems with processing, it's because of the lack of variety we typically have in our diets. If we're eating the same thing for every meal, we're inevitably going to have missing nutrients unless it's something like soylent.

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in reply to Shiri Bailem

I think it would be great to have more distinct verbiage.

There's taking real food and preparing it so it becomes more easily digested for those who need it to be.

And then there's adding substances to food that don't do us any good and we'd be better off without.

Both get called "processing", but removing things from my food that I can't digest needs a different word than does avoiding dangerous substances.

in reply to Scruffy Dux :krita: :inkscape:

@Scruffy Dux :krita: :inkscape: @MarkusL And again it depends on those substances, that's why I called out chemophobia in the beginning as well. Plenty of them are benign, well understood, and entirely safe... they just get a bad reputation because they never got a "common name". The most common example is MSG, that got a bad reputation because of chemophobia and racism (lots and lots of racism).

It's perfectly okay to call out specific additives, but calling out "processing" is vague and fearmongering.

Fun fact: the opposite happens with "organic" in which the food is drastically less healthy and less environmentally friendly, but people think it's better.

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@MarkusL @Scruffy Dux :krita: :inkscape: also, nobody was talking about "easier to digest", we're talking chicken nuggets, hamburgers, hot dogs, bread.

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in reply to Shiri Bailem

MSG is actually a perfect example of why it also depends on the individual's biology.

MSG is fine for most people, and did get a bad rap for all the reasons you say. Absolutely correct, no arguments there.

However more recently, research has been done that's found for some people who have health problems caused by disfunction of glutamatergic neurons, free glutamate can significantly exacerbate the issues.

I'm one such person. So it's important to approach things case by case

in reply to Shiri Bailem

MSG is a magical substance. I don't fully understand how it does what it does, but I love the stuff
in reply to Shiri Bailem

Interesting... You just listed off my list of foods for when I'm just needing things to be easy and familiar. I had not associated it with being easier to digest, but that makes loads of sense.
in reply to Scruffy Dux :krita: :inkscape:

@Scruffy Dux :krita: :inkscape: @MarkusL But it's also entirely unspecial in that regards, much like gluten and gluten intolerance.

My heart goes out to you because the only place I can think of where you can somewhat avoid MSG is ironically asian food, it's in everything.

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in reply to Shiri Bailem

Sure. However one of the conditions effected is central sensitization syndrome, which is estimated to be present in around 40% of autistic people.

I have it, and did not know to avoid or reduce free glutamate for years, because all assurances were it was safe for everyone.

I wish more autistic people especially knew about this and didn't have to learn the same excruciating way I did.

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@MarkusL @Scruffy Dux :krita: :inkscape: @Nick G "carcinogens" is kinda a junk word, the list of things not carcinogenic is very very short, because it's basically anything that can cause cell damage (mind you that cell damage is caused by you walking, opening doors, breathing, etc)

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Shiri Bailem

@MarkusL @Scruffy Dux :krita: :inkscape: yeah, that's just chemophobia with extra justification, plus conspiracy theories.

We binge foods with too much sugar and fat because our bodies are designed for that, historically those are much rarer materials so we're wired to consume them when available to store up energy for when they're not. We've just made them available constantly and our body is still wired to think of them as semi-scarce.

Salt on the other hand is just because it's one of the common spices and probably the most common preservative. And of course people buy products with more spices, let alone products that survive longer on shelves.

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Shiri Bailem

@MarkusL @Scruffy Dux :krita: :inkscape: I mean, they just them tastier and tastier because of course when given the option of tasty vs bland we pick tasty.

Of course I'm using bread and jelly with my peanut butter rather than just eating it straight out of the tub (... usually).

The whole argument here started with you taking ARFID and turning it into a soap box to say that frozen chicken nuggets are somehow disasterous to my health. That my diet of processed food due to a mental disorder is horrible because vague evils of the food industry.

Is it the healthiest diet? It is for me and the people like me because it's what we will eat, and fed is best. But it's also not some dire health concern beyond sometimes needing supplements to offset the things we can't eat.

And I'll note in the context of the original conversation: we're talking chicken nuggets, pasta, peanut butter, etc. Not chocolates, potato chips, cookies, etc. I don't know anyone whose only safe food is cookies.

On top of all that, it's not some BS conspiracy for them to manipulate us via our food... we do this to ourselves. When choosing between two different food products, we'll pick the one that's more enjoyable and of course they're going to compete to be the more enjoyable one.

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The choice is not eating healthy Vs unhealthy, it's between eating something or nothing at all. One can't argue that not eating at all is healthier...
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in reply to Scruffy Dux :krita: :inkscape:

Interesting experiment. And I'm all in for listening to your own body.

I used to crave beige food (pasta, bread, peanut butter etc), but it didn't do me any good. My health got worse. When I started a ketogenic diet and overcame my bad sugar addiction, my cravings changed dramatically and my health has much improved.

Today, I'm rather LCHF and I eat what I want when I want it. And I can fast! Was never able to do it in high-carb times.

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Hey there. I'd like to gently urge you to reconsider the absolutism of your statement about no favours from salt, sugar, and fat. Just consider leaving room for caveats and nuance and real people's real bodies. I personally have little value for refined sugars, but I RUN on glucose. I have POTS, which requires for me that I mindfully and deliberately add salt to my food and there are times in the middle of a work day when, if I don't have nori around, I'll need to fetch some fast food in order to get my salt up fast. My body needs fats as fuel. I don't function well without a high-fat diet.

Bodies, too, are incredibly diverse. I've taken so much guff in my life from people putting heavy but shallow judgements on my food needs. It's so easy to disregard a muted interoceptive signal from the body asking for what it needs. Even harder when the chorus is so demanding that you act counter to it.

It's really hard for me to separate the sensation of being told that my autistic traits are wrong and bad and toxic from the experience of being told that the foods that serve my body are wrong and bad and toxic. I hope I haven't brought that down too heavily on you, because I do just want to let you know that realities like mine exist.

[Explicitly, I agree that nature is brilliant and clever, and foods in their natural state often contain harmonies within them to help the beneficial elements of other foods be put to use.]

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