Why You Must Keep The Monsters Human
*(Reposting because my node crashed and lost all my posts and I want to keep this one pinned)*
I've been mulling over making this post for a little bit, but I think it's really **really** important.
It's critically important that you remember and acknowledge the humanity of monsters. Not for their benefit, but for *everyone else's* benefit.
When someone commits a monstrous act or shares a monstrous belief, we want to think of them as an inherently vile and non-human thing.
But doing so shields and protects other monsters.
When you make a Nazi, or any kind of abuser, into a one-dimensional monster. When you make their whole existence *center* on this monstrous act or belief... you make it hard to see their humanity. And that's the point, you don't *want* to see their humanity.
*** You Don't Want To Believe That Someone You Know And Trust (Maybe Even Love) Is Capable Of Such Atrocity. ***
And that's the problem. Because when you reject their humanity, that humanity becomes their shield. Your friend Bob can't possibly be a Nazi or a child-abuser, he's such a loving father and he helped you move!
Because you see their humanity, you can't possibly imagine them as monsters because the monsters have no humanity in your eyes.
There's a reason that when serial killers get caught their neighbors say they couldn't imagine them doing such things.
So don't ignore their humanity, keep it in your mind... so the next one can't use it as a shield.
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@autistics @actuallyadhd #adhd #autism #autistic #actuallyautistic #actuallyadhd #AuDHD #80hd #socialanxiety #anxiety
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Got told someone was trying to serve me papers weeks ago... they *finally* got to me (after telling them weeks ago where to find me...)
All that annoying anxiety for... relative died and they're foreclosing on his house.
I disowned all of them years ago... apparently they're going to annoy the shit out of me by dying...
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Thanks to @electro for bringing this to my attention lmao
If you visit yourmom.zip, you get a 413.
Request Entity Too Large.
No way.
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As a hearing aid user myself since ~birth, and a technologist who likes to build things, this sort of situation would be a double nightmare: sapiens.org/culture/planned-ob…
Imagine if your glasses stopped working without getting software updates. It's insanity, with shades of @pluralistic's "Unauthorized Bread".
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There's something along those lines but arguably worse which @pluralistic wrote about a little while ago: pluralistic.net/2022/12/12/uns…
Note the mention of new & added side-effects.
When a company can effectively "brick" your brain, we have taken DRM too far.
I thought the DRM controlled motocycle safety gear was the worst, but we have a new winner with cochlear implants.
Recall a heart valve if we don't maintain subscription?
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Whelp, that was faster than expected. Friendica already has an early BlueSky account connector (for puppeting an account since they haven't yet federated).
I've applied the latest (2023.5) update of Friendica and enabled that addon.
*and* this now means I get to feel less annoyed by people talking about BlueSky as an alternative to current fediverse platforms...
Still leaning on "probably not worth it to sign up for it", but... maybe I'll get in a mood?
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This actually profoundly captures a frustration I've felt for the past year.
Just, fucking, wow, gimme Splendric the Wise!
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Every study ever: Overworked employees are less productive. Employees who work from home are just as productive as employees who work in the office. The evidence is indisputable.
Managers: I see. But I have a hunch that the complete opposite is true.
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#ActuallyAutistic @actuallyautistic
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This is a test of Fedi users' ability to follow instructions.
Do NOT boost this post
Edit: so far the conclusion is that y'all don't know how to follow instructions (or you're a buncha brats >:3)
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Teacher: William Shakespeare is credited with the invention of over 1,700 words. He was a linguistic genius.
Student: Can I make up words and use them in my papers?
Teacher: Absolutely fucking not.
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Well ***fuck***
... I got my Friendica server all rolling, and then the database corrupted itself. I had set up backups last night but apparently it was just a day too late.
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in reply to Nicole 🍉 • • •"But what if I actually _am_ a rude person?"
"Welcome to the group."
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