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I really need culturally and/or religiously Christian gentiles to stop thinking of Judaism as "Christianity but without the New Testament".

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@LinuxAndYarn Assuming you're not Jewish, absolutely fucking not.
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As someone with PTSD, I wish every social media site had the option to block specific posts so that when different people share them repeatedly, you don't have to see them again.

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I don't actually know of any social media platforms that have this. My sister made me a script that did it for Twitter, but I don't use Twitter anymore.
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It's not as bad on here, because people *mostly* CW the worst of the triggering content, but it's a huge problem for me on tumblr.
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@Rabbit Cohen also consistently dismissing requests for CW gets you banned or defederated
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@shadowfals Oh huh, my eyes went right past that option for some reason, thanks!



This looks onerous right now... but I can imagine something like this being incorporated into AC system or dehumidifiers, etc, especially if it gets expanded to an array of diseases...

It doesn't so much prevent disease, but it can at least help with peace of mind and rapid disease control (ie. system goes off, everyone in the area quarantines to limit spread)


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somebody you know could be gay.
somebody you know could be trans.
somebody you know could be a vanilla mastodon user.
think before you speak hate



Antisemitism, Twitter


Just in case anyone here having ANY buyers remorse at moving your social home away from X/Twitter.

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@The Ill-Tempered Synthesizer I don't think it's street legal lol

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5+1 Antisemitic Microaggressions:

A thing triggered me the other day. It was a little thing. Just a word someone used. Not a slur, not an attack. Just a word. When I calmed down and started thinking about why something so 'small' had hit me so hard, I realized that it was a microaggression -- and I have never heard anyone talking about microaggressions against Jews.

jessmahler.com/51-antisemitic-…

#Mazeldon #Microaggressions #Antisemitism

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@Friendica Admins I could use some help cleaning up something on my instance.

I'm moving around the storage, and for some reason a lot of the thumbnails (not all) seem to have gotten corrupted. Regular files seem fine, but basically full size profile pictures are good but small versions are blurry.

Is there any good way to clear the storage of everything that's cached both in terms of thumbnails and data from other servers?



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#BBB
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Mutual Aid Call, Family Crisis, Mental Health Crisis

I live together with my sibling in a two bedroom, I'm the only one with a consistent income and doing my best to care for them. They struggle with borderline personality disorder, ptsd, bipolar, and bad anxiety. They aren't able to maintain a stable living situation on their own.

They've been in a relationship for most of the past year with someone who was great on the surface but insecure and shitty about it underneath. They kept taking their insecurities out on my sibling and isolating them, and started helping them with their meds and then stopped multiple times making their situation so much worse (and getting shitty if anyone else helped, so I wasn't even in the loop to help because he would have shit on them for even telling me about it).

The break up went catastrophically bad because he kept escalating until my sibling was in the worst episode I've ever seen and eventually antagonized them to the point of shoving him... then the cops showed up and arrested my sibling. (seriously, ACAB.)

Long story short, skipping a lot of detail elements, this has put us in the position to be a few hundred dollars behind in budget to cover rent and expenses, especially the court costs (ex isn't pressing charges, but in Texas that doesn't matter apparently). They have to get into alcohol counseling (they were in a bad way and went out with friends that night, the bar severely overserved them), as well as get back on their meds, and pay their bond... all within the next few days.

We've got leads on a lot of resources, but it's not going to make ends meet in the short term and we could really use help.

If you could send some money to help out, the best method is Cash App to $ShiriBailem (benefits of a unique name!)

If you can't, a boost/reshare would be greatly appreciated!

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Escort instead of stripper (by u/SophieGomez8)

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#Caturday #CatsOfMastodon

Me: I bet it will be tidier if I put the dried catnip in a little bowl for him.

Him:

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NSFW, Chuck Tingle Erotica, Man In Only Underwear
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Great wind down activity for the night, migrating LVM volumes
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To be clear: this is a hands off, low risk, operation. There's redundancy, so if it fails nothing should be lost and if I fall asleep no harm done.


Image Alt Text: On the left is a picture of Mountain Dew flavored lip balm. On the right is a comic with two thin masc presenting people wearing collars, one playing a game with a controller saying "Damn, I keep dying in the same spot. Could I get some Mountain Dew real quick?" The other says "I'm on it!" while applying lip balm, beneath that is a drawing of the two kissing.

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This is so damn fascinating, an AI playing the game, not as a speedrun but humanlike, and dynamically monologuing in the voice of the original character!

youtu.be/QW-U8y-Dh7w




I'm really tired and at the end of my rope and could use some broad advice and help... I don't expect much...

My sibling (by choice) got arrested last night because they were in a major mental health crisis (really bad Borderline/Bipolar episode) and slapped/shoved their partner in the middle of it. I don't think that's okay for them to have done and am not remotely justifying it.

This was brought on by their breakup with their partner and the fact that they ran out of their medications.

I'm in the US, Texas to be specific. They need consistent access to medications and therapy to be remotely stable... and that just isn't available.

We moved into this apartment last year with various plans on how I would support them but all of those plans fell through. Their mother was supposed to cover their half of bills until they could get on disability, but just before move-in she basically disowned them.

They were off and on able to pick up some work initially, but were very unstable. Started this relationship with their now-ex who moved in and covered their half of the bills for most of the past year, but that ended recently and their ex is moving out.

I simply don't make enough to really cover them by myself and I can't abandon them when they're actively trying to be and do better. We just happen to live in a country and state that believes that it's better for people to just die than actually help someone who hasn't "earned it"

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[Corp Blog] Facial recognition tech lands innocent woman with bogus carjacking charge


Summary
* Detroit woman wrongly arrested for carjacking and robbery due to facial recognition technology error.
* Porsche Woodruff, 8 months pregnant, mistakenly identified as culprit based on outdated 2015 mug shot.
* Surveillance footage did not match the identification, victim wrongly identified Woodruff from lineup based on the 2015 outdated photo.
* Woodruff arrested, detained for 11 hours, charges later dismissed; she files lawsuit against Detroit.
* Facial recognition technology's flaws in identifying women and people with dark skin highlighted.
* Several US cities banned facial recognition; debate continues due to lobbying and crime concerns.
* Law enforcement prioritized technology's output over visual evidence, raising questions about its integration.
* ACLU Michigan involved; outcome of lawsuit uncertain, impact on law enforcement's tech use in question.
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flaws in identifying women and people with dark skin highlighted.


Why did I read this as women using makeup to highlight their cheekbones.

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Just sharing a random bit of AI fun because I was bored and had a thought.

AI can incidentally translate language, but that also extends to things like converting victorian english to modern day english and even updating slang and euphamisms (though when asked for slang it'll lay it on a bit thick... but it's fun about it)

So... here's the opening monologue of Romeo & Juliet (and no, it didn't preserve iambic pentameter):

Yo, listen up, peeps! Two big-shot families, equally high and mighty,
Kicking it in fair Verona, where this drama's gonna go down.
An old beef turns into some fresh drama,
And it's so bad it gets everyone dirty.
From the messed-up love lives of these two rival crews,
A pair of star-crossed lovers are gonna do something crazy,
Their messed-up misadventures bring down a whole lotta pain,
And with their deaths, their parents' drama finally stops.
The crazy rollercoaster of their death-marked love,
And the never-ending feud between their folks,
That only ends with their tragic deaths,
Is gonna be the main event on our stage—
If y'all stick around and listen close,
We'll do our best to keep it real for ya!

#AI #RandomFun #Shakespeare


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Fool Me Twice We Don't Get Fooled Again: There's a crucial difference between federatable and federated.

doctorow.medium.com/fool-me-tw…

#Bluesky #Threads #Mastodon #Fediverse #Federation #SwitchingCosts #UlyssesPacts

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There will sadly never be a better software name than Nero Burning ROM.
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Well, regarding disablities:

I don't know if I should still write something like this nowadays - but so be it.
2-3 years ago I went by train and there was a person in a wheelchair without legs, who turned on everyone else.
I kept out of it, but when I got off I had to inevitably pass him and he he had also for me me a stupid saying in store.
I was really annoyed by him and asked him where he was going? to a dance contest?
*concerned silence*
He started to laugh and said that I was the only one who would take him seriously.
I see him 1-2 times a year at most, but a friendship has grown out of the situation :)

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@Raroun I call that a lucky bit of chemistry. Also, just because someone isn't using saying ableist things doesn't mean they're being ableist... walking lightly around disabled people is also it's own form of ableism that gets really tiring.

And I'm not even sure your joke is what I was talking about since it was very direct and more a specific targeted jab that happened to reference their disability, you didn't even mark it as something shameful but rather just spouted an absurdity.

A prime example would be something like mocking the lisp of a Nazi. Sure, that person is a Nazi... but what about all the non-Nazis that you're also mocking at the same time?





Call For Mutual Aid!

One of my sibling's friends was hit by a car and is temporarily disabled, they're currently living off of only $70 in food stamps while they can't work and every little bit can help!

They've been in this state for a few weeks but only now broke down and asked for help (we all know how it is with hyper-independence).

They can take donations over Paypal here: bigcloud456@yahoo.com

#mutualaid

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Whelp, Facebook suspended my account, so y'all have my full attention for now!


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Random thought: are furries to werewolves as goths are to vampires?

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Impressive analogy that somehow made me want to rise to the defense of goths and I never saw THAT coming.
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Speaking as a therian, yes, those of us who identify as "were" (a spiritual/psychological thing, vs. people who believe they actually transform into animals), I've had this conversation so many times that it feels like Groundhog Day. A fellow werebear once described furry as being like "a trip to Disneyland." There's a lot of overlap, but therians tend to be about "big ideas” like….

(Con’t.)



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@Faye Loves Godzilla ah, the party who will at best do nothing about cops and war...

I'm not saying don't vote for them, but don't pretend they're any good.

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@Faye Loves Godzilla they don't remotely represent me, they think our existence can be bargained with for "middle ground" with nazis.

The no-spine, concede to Nazis part is marginally better than Nazis, which is why I vote for them. But I don't ever pretend that they're "good".


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All I want is for someone to push me up against a wall

Lean in

And whisper 'I'll do your housework'

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Open invite to ask questions since a lot of people here have shown interest.

I'm willing to share my experience with Judaism, notably as a Jewish convert (but don't confuse me for a rabbi), as well as my experience as an autistic (and how the two interact).

I'm very open to questions, even about sensitive topics, but I do ask potentially sensitive questions be put in a content warning for the sake of others.

#jewish #judaism #ActuallyAutistic

Edit: Boosting / Resharing is encouraged

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